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Type keyword(s) to search10 Things Men Wish Women Knew About SexLearn what he really wants in the bedroom and why, with these genius sex tips and advice.Jan 1, 2017Getty ImagesFreud called female sexuality the dark continent if thats true, male sexuality could qualify as the dark planet. But when it comes to sex, guys are simple, right? Not true. The bedroom is one of the great stages of male performance, and as such, what you see and hear is typically the role, not the reality. Its no wonder, in trying to please the actor, a woman loses sight of a guys true identity. Here are 10 unmasking facts you may want to know:Advertisement Continue Reading Below1. We Respond to PraiseIts believed that men are so consumed by our libido that we have no selfconsciousness surrounding sex. But men are no different from women when it comes to compliments as catalysts for sexual confidence. This praise can be delivered before reaching the bedroom (give us the onceover and tell us how buff we look), and after (give us the onceover and tell us how buff we look naked). Along those lines, men worry about the size of their guts (and other measurable organs), their hair (or lack thereof) and other attributes. Try to be extra affirming about those sensitivities.2. We Fear Intimacybut not for the reason you think! Studies have shown that boys are more affectionate, even more expressive, than girls until they reach school age. At that time, social repression beginsof words, thoughts, feelingsand our desire for human connection goes underground. So taboo is this desire for intimacy that its possibility can terrify mennot because its smothering, but because we realize how desperate we are for it. Whats a woman to do? First, understand that your guys hasty retreat postsex may be about his own shock at how much he craves a connection with you (and how much hes denied it in life). Then, retreat a little yourself. This gives him time to see that his boyhood habits are, in fact, perfectly manly.3. We Appreciate Sex for Sexs SakeHaving said that about intimacy, sometimes a little throwmedown sex is the right medicine. According to Joe Kort, PhD, a psychotherapist and sexologist, Men want their wives to enjoy raw sex, not just endure it or take it personally. For men, its not about dominating a woman, but ravishing her. On occasion, try letting him ravish you.Advertisement Continue Reading Below4. We Are Not Just OurThe penis gets all the press, but men have many erogenous zones, says psychologist Melodie Schaefer, PsyD. Men tend not to correct women because theyre afraid women will shut down and not touch them at all. But there are many places a woman should touch. Like the chest, the inner thighs and face. Two other key areas: Gently gripping a mans testicles can be a real turnon, as it blends control with release. Also, stimulating the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, will heighten pleasure during oral sex.5. We Encourage FantasiesMen want to share their fantasies but worry their wives will shame or judge them, says Dr. Kort. Similarly, Dr. Schaefer reports that men wish women would reveal their imaginings. Want to open yourself to these possibilities? Try making a game of it . First, and most important, promise not to judge the other then, privately write out scenarios that have tantalized you and place them in a box. When you are next intimate, pull one out. If youre both comfortable, give it a shot. If not, Dr. Kort recommends asking the author a key question: What about this fantasy do you like? Sometimes, its themes can be addressed in different, more comfortable scenarios.6. We Like It When You TalkTalking during sex stimulates more than our ears. What kind of talk? Dirty, praising and instructive are great starts. As amusing as it may sound, a womans words can make a guy feel as potent and virile as a Roman gladiator, even if hes a suburban banker.7. We Need Your HonestySex can solve the stresses of a relationship, but its often where the stresses show up. If we complain about a lack of sex (or your doing certain things only on our birthday), we may be overlooking serious issues that underpin such withholding. We need you to enlighten us. The male ego is often tied to sex, so its easy for us to dismiss bedroom problems as female disinterest rather than issues we have a part in. Avoiding these problems, however, only perpetuates your feeling unseen and our frustration.Advertisement Continue Reading BelowAdvertisement Continue Reading Below8. We Enjoy the DanceMen like a good quest unfortunately, these days, there are so few. But romance earns that distinction. Allow us to court you make us deserve your desire. Dr. Kort makes an additional point: Emotional intimacy is about closeness, but sustaining sexual desire demands a certain amount of distance. How do couples strike this tricky balance? By allowing each partner to have what he calls separate sexuality: a sexual life that doesnt include, but doesnt betray, the other. For him, that might mean allowing his wife to use toys or letting other men look at her for her, it might be permitting him to watch pornography in order to experience a fantasy. Such indulgences help maintain the balance of desire and devotion for both parties.9. We Can Explain PornographyFinding a spouse using pornography is a top reason couples seek counsel, says Dr. Kort, but it shouldnt be overreacted to or pathologized. A few things to clear up: 1. Sex addicts represent only 4 percent of the population, so its unlikely your man is one. 2. Because childhood experiences influence sexuality as an adult, people are very idiosyncratic about what turns them on. In other words, says Dr. Kort, no woman can, nor should she, be everything to a man. Still, the question remains: How does a woman not take pornography personally? First, determine if your mate is compulsive, or can only have sex, with pornography. If so, you may want to seek counseling. If not, Dr. Kort recommends taking the secrecy out of pornography by discussing it. Use the lens of what about it turns him on versus what turns you off. That way, a dialogue is created that allows for honesty, dignity and closeness.Advertisement Continue Reading Below10. We Always Need It, But Not for the Reason You ThinkMen are accused of being sexually insatiable, but women should rethink this. Men see sex as a celebration, says Dr. Schaefer. They wish women would take more of a carpe diem approach to it. We move through life at the speed of sound, with multiplying challenges and pressures. Its easy to allow demands on our time and energy to rob us of the joy, pleasure and opportunity that sex affords us. On the long list of priorities, it should not be on the bottom rung. If that doesnt make you want to seize the day (or something else), consider the health benefits: Orgasms release oxytocin, which has been called the bonding hormone, bringing couples closer together while it alleviates anxiety and stress, reduces blood pressure and promotes healing.Advertisement Continue Reading Below
But why stick with the basic man on top sexual position?Try, for example, having sex with the CAT . Thats the coital alignment technique, of course.We all know that a womans clitoris may not get a lot of stimulation during sex in the basic man on top position for one thing, neither partner can reach it that easily.But surely, you might say, it can be stimulated by the mans body pressing on it?And, yes, youd be right, but to stimulate it in a way that helps her reach orgasm isnt as straightforward as you might think.Basically, the partners need to rock their bodies against each other in such a way that her clitoris is gently pressed against his body.This means no rampant thrusting: instead, after he has entered her, he moves his whole body upwards (in relation to hers) so that the base of his penis makes contact with the general area of her clitoris.Then they rock in a coordinated way, so that every time he moves up, she moves down.The idea is to produce a series of small bumps between her clitoris and the general area of the base of his penis, so that she gradually builds towards orgasm.If you want to know exactly how to do this, read about it here, from the guy who invented it, sex researcher Edward Eichel. (And good luck. I havent met anyone yet who understands this sex technique! But think of the fun you could have trying to work it out....)This is the easiest and best way to overcome delayed ejaculation since it is the position which makes men come fastest!Find out how to end DE here.So what happens when she puts her legs in the air?The main difference between sexual positions comes down to two things. The first is the angle of penetration the angle at which his penis enters her vagina.Any change in the orientation of the two partners bodies can change the angle at which his penis thrusts into her vagina, and of course this will change the sensations that both partners feel.The other major difference, needless to say, is the tightness of her vagina anything that tightens her vagina will tend to make sex feel better for him (provided there is still enough lubrication to ensure that the friction does not become unpleasant) and possibly for her.Unfortunately many women find that even a slight change of angle of entry can cause unpleasant friction in the vagina this is especially true if his penis begins to rub too hard on her sensitive spots such as her G spot.Having said that, an interesting technique which makes man on top sex feel better for both partners is the one in which she raises her legs progressively further up his body.The most common variation is when she places her feet on his calves, or wraps her legs around his thighs see the pictures below.She clasps him with her legs and pulls him into herAs a general rule, the higher she raises her legs, the deeper his penis will go into her.Whats more, she can pull him deeper into her, which is delicious for both partners, especially if shes into deep penetration.This sexual technique can be very fulfilling for the man, since men often crave deep penetration its something instinctual, no doubt, about ejaculating as near their partners cervix as possible.But when we have sex for fun, such ancient genetic impulses can be used to enhance our pleasure and if shes flexible enough to raise her legs as shown in the picture below, then both partners enjoyment may increase greatly.If shes even more flexible, this sexual position may offer great sexAs you might expect, when she gets her legs right back see the picture below the man can get his cock as deeply into her as hes ever likely to do. This can be very exciting, make him come quickly, and allow him to thrust deeply and powerfully. So its not good for men with premature ejaculation, or even a tendency to ejaculate quickly. In fact this might be best avoided if you are a quick comer!However all is not lost. For men in this camp, there are many good ejaculation control programs available, including Ejaculation By Command. You can read more about that here: click here for a complete review.Hopefully hes not going to thrust too deeply, though, for if he does he might hit her cervix with the end of his penis, which is sometimes very painful for a woman.Its essential that both partners are able to tell the other what they want and dont want, so as to ensure sex is a great experience for both of them.An interesting variation with the man kneeling for sexYouve got to be flexible for some of this stuff, believe me.But if youre not, theres a chance youre going to feel youre missing out on something wonderful, that the heights of sexual pleasure are being denied to you.Thats not true: sex can be just as good in the basic man on top (or any other basic sexual position) as it is in the variations.What you miss if you cant get into positions like the ones below is variety and though variety is supposed to be the spice of life, there are so many options in sex that you need never feel deprived.That said, the positions below do have a certain extra spice: the man can see himself penetrating his partner, which is what men like to see, and she can enjoy a feeling of wanton lustfulness, of being a bad girl, of exposing herself and allowing herself to be taken.OK, that might not be your thing, and maybe you just like sex in this position because it feels good, but for a lot of people sex in a new sexual position like this is an exciting method simply because its different to the safer, perhaps more conventional ways of having sex.Sidebar: Yeast InfectionsMen and women alike can get a yeast infection of the genital area caused by the fungus Candida albicans. This causes a lot of irritation and itching, and may also produce vaginal discharge and a red rash on the penis or vulva.Candidiasis, as the condition is known, is caused by an overgrowth of Candida yeast cells when the healthy bacteria which normally hold them in check are depleted for some reason (often a side effect of medication).Yeast infections can be treated with a home remedy or with prescribed medication. There are many different and excellent techniques to cure them, including traditional yeast infection home remedies. Note that oral sex can transmit yeast infections, which may manifest as thrush.Squeeze your man, girls!Men like three things: warmth, wetness, and tightness.Provided the woman is naturally welllubed, or you have a bottle of lube at hand, the first two are taken care of. The third depends on where you both have your legs.For extra sensation, try having the womans legs inside the mans. He wont be able to penetrate as deeply, but it may be exquisitely pleasurable for him.Dont expect sex to last long, though! And if you need ejaculation control techniques, check them out here slowing down ejaculation!Another exciting system with the good old man on top!This position can be very exciting, because it allows deep penetration, the man can view his partners buttocks as he enters her, and it provides both partners with a sense of takingbeing taken, which might be something you find sexually exciting.Its certainly a good method for those times you feel very horny, but you want a compromise between rear entry and conventional man on top sex!Other Common ProblemsThere is certainly something significantly anxious about the attitudes and feelings of a lot of men ejaculation towards women, and I think one of the things that can help them is to get some training in how to approach and relate to women in a way that women respect and yet at the same time really engages with them.So, should you wish to know more about how to seduce a woman, then the best idea I can offer you is that you go along to The Tao Of Badass click here to find out more and find out what the most experienced pick up artist of all, Joshua Pellicer, has to say about seducing women. To manifest whatever you want, including a relaitonship, click here.A woman talks about man on top lovemakingWhy do I like the manontop sexual position? Many, many reasons. I love to feel him on top of me, his weight bearing down on me, that slight sense of being dominated in a loving way, feeling him penetrating me, kissing him as he enters me, caressing his back, arms, legs, buttocks oh, the sexiness of that......incredible!Of course what rocks your boat may be different, but what makes this so sexy for me is the connection hes fucking me while he looks into my eyes, and I can move my legs so that I have him round the waist and I can pull him deeper into my cunt.That way, hes mine, and he cant get away. Mind you, I also love the thought of him entering me while I cant get away even if I wanted to.....which of course I dont!And moving my legs can really get him going. I can bend my knees, rest my feet on his calves and relax while he does the work including sucking my breasts or I can straighten my legs out and flex my vaginal muscles while I watch his face.The power of his orgasm is something amazing to me the thought that Im somehow responsible for the sexual energy he gives out as he shouts out in his uncontrollable orgasmic thrusts gives me a real sense of my feminine sexual power.Whats more, if we get tired we can use some simpler and more restful sexual techniques side by side being favorite! We can move over into the side by side sexual position from the man on top very easily, and it doesnt take much effort.You just have to make sure that your legs and arms dont get squashed as you roll over, and his penis must must be deeply inside as you both start to roll.Once were there, we spend a lot of time just caressing, looking into each others eyes and moving gently.Sex lasts a long time when its done this way, and this has the advantage that when we do come, we come much more powerfully sometimes we can even manage to come at the same time, especially if Im very aroused before we start to make love.The great advantage is that my clitoris is easily accessible and we can time our arrival at orgasm more easily than we can when we use other sex techniques where he (or I) cant reach my clitoris as easily.Theres a lot of potential variation in this position. You can hug each other close or you can move back and relax, staring into each others eyes.You can have the woman lift her leg high in the air, and you can then enjoy the sight of his penis penetrating your vagina, while being able to play with each others labia, balls and anus if that turns you on.The penetration is more visible in this position than many others, and it can be very exciting for both partners to watch the movement of his penis in and out of the vagina, wet with vaginal lubrication.Its a restful sexual technique for lovemaking, and one that seems to allow for a great exchange of sexual spiritual energy.You can also take it more vigorously and enjoy powerful thrusting by both partners if thats what you feel like, though its really nice to enjoy this position in a relaxed way before you go to sleep.If you do it reversed, with his chest to the womans back, then you can actually fall asleep like this.A man talks about man on top sexMan on top sex really does it for me. Sure, rear entry is exciting, and side by side is loving and relaxing and very sexy when you can see the penetration but man on top is my real favorite.I like to enjoy the feeling that Im in charge, that Id dominating my partner, that Im taking her, and though that may sound a bit chauvinistic, I do believe this can be a real turn on during sex, when we encounter the essence of the male and female sexual nature.To me its about givingreceiving, dominatingbeing taken, but definitely not about active and passive. Its nonsense to talk of women being passive during sex: they should be just as active as men, in particular during man on top sex, when they can thrust just as powerfully as a man.The best positions involving man on top are a real favorite of mine. Theres so much intimacy and connection and yet at the same time theres so much raw sexual power around.I love feeling my partner under me, her breasts pressing on my chest, her nipples available for pleasure, our kissing can be passionate or gentle and loving, and there is of course always the thrill of penetration especially when I see her face as I slide my penis into her.That moment has never stopped giving me the biggest thrill of my life even after years with the same partner I still find it exciting and arousing to enter her, to push her flesh apart and find my way into her secret places.Entering her body is wonderful, especially when I feel her become even wetter in response to my entry thrusting is so instinctual and fulfilling that it excites me beyond measure, and of course, the climax of sex in this position is ejaculating deep inside her.That technique is better than anything else Ive known in my sexual experience. And in case that all seems a bit selfcentered, I should add that she loves it all as well!One thing a lot of men have told me is that the deep thrusts possible in the man on top sexual position certainly makes most men come quickly a lot of selfdiscipline and selfrestraint is required before a man learns to hold off his ejaculation in this sexual position, I think. Its not good for premature ejaculators, thats for sure!Ive had a few amusing things happen in the man on top position. I tend to shout very loudly when I come, and I once deafened a partner because I had my mouth next to her ear on the pillow something to watch out for if you like to give voice to your pleasure at the moment of orgasm!Another thing to watch out for is muscle strain especially if youre moving into middle age. Sex techniques need to be adapted for your age and health!Its helpful to rest your weight on your arms when they are wrapped under her shoulders, so youre not pressing up just on your hands.This also allows her to feel protected and loved, since you have her in a tight embrace, though of course you shouldnt forget to ask her if she likes what youre doing, and adjust your position if shes uncomfortable.But as far as Im concerned, the closer our bodies come the better during man on top sex.That doesnt mean its got to be like that every time of course, its thrilling to adopt some of the variants, especially the kneeling ones, so you can see yourself penetrating your partner, and its also very exciting if she positions her legs in the air so you can thrust more deeply and enjoy a different sensation as you move inside her.The only problem with this one, though, is that if you have an inflexible back and a short penis, you might not be able to get into her unless you support her bottom on a pillow.Other advantages of man on top sex: she can talk dirty into your ear, she can whisper encouragement to you (rude or not, as she chooses!) as you fuck her, and she can play with your buttocks, nipples and back.Having your nipples tweaked or even bitten as you come might increase the intensity of your orgasm quite a bit at least, thats what Ive found!Readers comment on the man on top sexual positionsWhen we asked women to comment on man on top sex, this is a sample of what they said:Like many women, I love man on top sexual positions. I have a pillow wonder my bottom, hes up on his arms, and as he thrusts into me he hits the spot that just makes me scream with delight!I also love watching his male power, the strength of his muscles and arms as he pushes into me. Its just so sexy.When I watch my man come, it is the greatest sight Ive witnessed. I think many women appreciate man on top sex nowadays weve moved through all that stuff about women being dominated and we can see it as a sexual position where both partners get real pleasure.Watching my man come is a pleasure for me, but besides that, the position simply feels good!Whats more, were in close contact he can kiss me, kiss my breasts, caress me and look into my eyes. Its good for both of us.When my mans on top, the kissing is wonderful! Imagine the eroticism of being kissed while your man has his cock buried deep inside you! Does it get any more romantic than that?Our favorite position is of course man on top I love watching him while hes in ecstasy. But he can also shift his body up and use it to press on my clitoris, which can make me come. Theres nothing as good as coming together!My favorite sex position is man on top. He shifts his body up so I can keep my clit in contact with his body and feel the pressure on it from his pubic mound.I think its the fact I can control the pressure and control when I come that makes it so good. But I also like to be on top watching him go into ecstasy as I ride him that is such a powerful feeling, to give him such pleasure.I love man on top when we adapt it so my legs are over his shoulders. I love feeling compressed, I love feeling his weight on me as he fucks me it gives me a delicious feeling of being taken, being unable to resist his desires.Find out the secrets of female ejaculation and Gspot orgasm and so find ways to experience levels of passion and orgasmic bliss you never imagined possible!No matter what weve done before, we always finish off in the man on top position that is, we always finish so he can come in this position. He absolutely adores it, and so do I, though I usually come when Im on top or through oral sex.But watching him as he ejaculates is just the most amazing thing, and something I never get over no matter how many times we do it!We are a couple over fifty and we find that the man on top position has become somewhat tiring for us.Nowadays we start off in this position but finish up in the side by side positions for lovemaking as it is much less tiring.Would You Like To EnjoyFemale Orgasms Like This
a.k.a. SidewinderBenefits: A very intimate facetoface position that encourages hugging and kissing.This is an ideal position if she is pregnant or either one of you had a knee injury because it keeps weight off the body. To get into the position, begin by lying on your sides and facing one another. She spreads her legs slightly to allow you to enter her, then closes her legs so the part of your shaft thats outside can press against her clitoris. Its easy to kiss from this intimate facetoface position.Now try this: Because thrusting is more difficult in this position, use different techniques such as grinding, circular, and upanddown motions for added stimulation.Hot Tip HersHug each other for 20 seconds before getting busy. Hugging raises your levels of oxytocin, a bonding hormone your body produces naturally, and that will enhance your connection. Awww ...byron graySex Position: The X Positiona.k.a. CrisscrossBenefits: Prolonged slow sex to build arousal. Shallow thrusts stimulate the nerve endings in the head of your penis.Sit on the bed facing each other with legs forward. Lift your right leg over her left and she lifts her right leg over your left. Come together so you can enter. Now both of you lie back, with your legs forming an X. Slow, leisurely gyrations replace thrusting.Now try this: Reach out and hold hands to pull together for pelvic thrusting. Also, take turns alternatively sitting up and lying back without changing the rhythm.Sex Position: Snow Angela.k.a. Bottoms UpBenefits: She gets a prime view of your derriere.This is challenging: She lies on her back while you straddle her facing away. She lifts her legs and wraps them around your back to elevate her pelvis so you can enter. She then grabs your butt to help you slide up and back. She can add a little massage action to her grip also.Hot Tip HisSpin around into missionary style to face her while trying to stay inserted. Then switch positions, this time with her on top and facing away.Sex Position: The Fusiona.k.a. Getting a Leg UpBenefits: Quicker orgasms for her easier motions. (And for more ways to give her faster orgasms, check out How to Pleasure a Woman . Its the utlimate guide for helping you satisfy her every single time.)From The Spider, she can lift her legs onto your shoulders, which increases the muscular tension that advances the orgasm sequence. By elevating her butt off the bed, itll be easier for her to thrust and grind in circles.byron graySex Position: The SpiderBenefits: You both can still maintain eye contact while viewing the action at center stage.Both of you are seated on the bed with legs toward one another, arms back to support yourselves. Now move together and she moves onto you. Her hips will be between your spread legs, her knees bent and feet outside of your hips and flat on the bed. Now rock back and forth.Now try this: She grabs your hands and pulls herself up into a squatting position while you lie back. Or you can remain seated upright and pull her against your chest into the Lazy Man position.Hot Tip HisHelp turn her on by straddling her bottom and massaging her back. While youre busy with your hands, she can wiggle, grind, and move her mons pubis in a circular motion against the sheets to stimulate the clitoris.Sex Position: Hovering Butterflya.k.a. The Face SitterBenefits: She can direct the position of your tongue and the pressure against her by rising up or pressing down.She straddles you placing her knees at your ears. She can hold onto a wall or headboard for support. While youre doing your thing, she can use her fingers to graze her nipples or rub the top of her vulva.Now try this: Hold your tongue firm as she gyrates her hips, pressing her clitoris against it.
Share this articleShareImmediately before they reached the peak, other areas of the brain became affected such as the sensory cortex, which receives touch messages from parts of the body.The final part of the brain to be activated is the hypothalamus, the control part which regulates temperature, hunger, thirst and tiredness.Meg Ryan showed how women fake orgasms in When Harry Met Sally, but when theyre not faking them, they are more likely to fall in love with a man after sexThe scientists also discovered that sexual arousal numbs the female nervous system to such an extent that a woman doesnt feel as much pain only pleasure. The team now hopes to map what happens in a mans brain during orgasm.But what else is happening inside our heads when we slip between the sheets? Here we ask the experts to reveal how sex alters our brain.WHY LOVE HURTSA key hormone released during sex is oxytocin, also known as the cuddle hormone. This lowers our defences and makes us trust people more, says Dr Arun Ghosh, a GP specialising in sexual health at the Spire Liverpool Hospital.Its also the key to bonding, as it increases levels of empathy. Women produce more of this hormone, although its not clear why, and this means they are more likely to let their guard down and fall in love with a man after sex.However, the problem is that the body cant distinguish whether the person were with is a casual fling or marriage material oxytocin is released either way. So while it might help you bond with the love of your life, its also the reason you may feel so miserable when a shortterm relationship ends.Men, on the other hand, instead of getting a surge of bonding hormone receive a surge of simple pleasure.The problem is that when a man has an orgasm, the main hormone released is dopamine the pleasure hormone. And this surge can be addictive, says Dr Ghosh.Thats why so many more men tend to suffer from sex addiction.For women especially the mind plays a key role in achieving orgasm. The key to female arousal seems to be deep relaxation and a lack of anxietySTARVING OFF DEMENTIAMany of us are all too aware that our brain cells decline with age. In fact, its said we lose 7,000 brain cells a day by the time were 35, which makes rather depressing reading.The good news, however, is that having regular sex may help us grow new brain cells, according to scientists from Princeton University in the United States.And the more sex you have, the more cells you can grow, it seems. Animal studies, published in the journal PLoS ONE, suggest that sex stimulates the growth of brain cells in the hippocampus, the part of the brain responsible for memory and learning.Factors such as stress and depression have been shown to shrink the hippocampus, yet exercise and sex counteract this effect.Furthermore, sex could actually be protecting our brain cells against decline.There is some evidence that older people who are sexually active are less likely to have dementia and this could be for a variety of complex reasons, says Dr Ghosh.Sex causes increased blood flow to the brain, which improves oxygen levels.MRI scans have shown that during orgasm the neurons in the brain are more active and use more oxygen, explains Barry Komisaruk, professor of psychology at Rutgers University and a leading authority on sex and neuroscience.It appears that the more active the neurons, the more oxygen they withdraw from the blood so more oxygenated blood is supplied to the region, delivering a fresh supply of nutrients.But as well as boosting brain cells, sex could also sharpen a womans mind, says Dr Ghosh. Thats due to a surge in sex hormones, particularly testosterone, which can help improve concentration and reaction times.SMOOCHING MEANS BETTER SEXYoull have much better sex if you kiss before intercourseThe lips are packed with nerve endings 100 times more than the fingertips.As a result, kissing kickstarts multiple mechanisms in the brain, releasing chemicals that lower stress and boost mood, says Dr Ghosh.Youll have much better sex if you kiss before intercourse, says Dr Ghosh.It increases levels of the pleasure hormones and will make you a lot more receptive to what happens later.Thats why loving sex can be more satisfying than a quickie and that endorphin hit from dopamine is especially important for women.A NATURAL PAINKILLEROrgasm (rather than sex) can block pain signals, says Professor Komisaruk. Research using laboratory animals and humans has found that orgasm can inhibit the release of pain transmitters from the spinal cord so they cant reach the neurons in the brain that respond to pain.In fact, he says, it can raise the pain threshold so much that the equivalent effect in morphine is three times the usual painrelieving dose.MIND POWERA lot of sexual health research focuses on whats happening physically.But experts say that for many people especially women the mind plays a key role in achieving orgasm.While male brains tend to focus on the physical stimulation involved in sexual contact, the key to female arousal seems to be deep relaxation and a lack of anxiety.The scans show that, during sex, the parts of the female brain responsible for processing fear, anxiety and emotion start to relax more and more, reaching a peak at orgasm, when the female brains anxiety and emotion are effectively closed down.THE ULTIMATE HAPPY PILLThere is a known circuit in the brain thats involved in feeling happy, explains Paul Thompson, professor of neurology at the University of California, Los Angeles, and an expert in brain imaging.This is called the limbic region, which is deep in the brain, and its more active when were rewarded. The same system is activated by sex, drugs, gambling basically anything we enjoy.Theres more blood flow to the head, more neurons firing, more brain activity.Much of this deep brain circuit runs on the hormone dopamine. Anything pleasurable tends to cause these brain cells to exude more of it and this makes them fire faster.Without doubt, sex has not only physical but psychological and social benefits, too, says Dr Ghosh.The endorphins released during sex can really help treat depression and clear the mind.One is serotonin, also called the happy hormone, which creates a sense of bliss. People often say that sex is the last thing they feel like doing when theyre depressed, but do try it if you can.And dont worry if you get emotional afterwards its very common to end up crying after sex. This is caused by a combination of endorphins being released and heightened emotions.BETTER SLEEPIf youre struggling to nod off, its better to have sex than take a sleeping pill, says Dr Ghosh.In fact, its more beneficial to have sex in the evening rather than the morning because the body wants to be relaxed afterwards, not get up and go to work.By having sex at the end of the day youll reap more of the stressrelieving benefits. For a man, a powerful orgasm is the equivalent of having on average a 23mg shot of diazepam (or Valium).Thats why so many men nod off afterwards there really is a biological reason for this.Share or comment on this articleMost watched News videos
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Reviewed By Sean Jameson ,January 27, 2018Nobody likes having quiet or even silent sex. Its a complete turnoff and a recipe for a very dull sex life.Thats why I am going to teach you exactly how to talk dirty to your man with this Dirty Talking Guide so that you can build sexual tension, keep him deeply attracted to you and most importantly so that you have incredible sex.If you want to skip straight to the dirty talk phrases below click here or keep reading to discover exactly how to start talking dirty to your man to get maximum results.Quick Warning: While this tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your man scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you. If you are interested in having a man completely obsessed with you and only you, then check out the detailed ( explicit!) oral sex tutorial video here .Right now, you are reading the first chapter of the Dirty Talking GuideOn this page, youre going to learn 73 different dirty talking phrases to use. You can click here to skip straight to them or keep reading to learn how and why you should be using dirty talk in your relationship.Why Learn To Talk Dirty In The First Place?The first step in learning how to talk dirty to your man is understanding why you should be doing it.Many women think using dirty talk phrases like the ones below is something thats reserved for the bedroom only. It certainly does make sex more enjoyable, but it works in so many other areas of your relationship too.Build Sexual Tension By far the most powerful benefit of talking dirty to your guy is that it increases the sexual tension between you and him. Sexual tension is the core building block of having a passionate, enjoyable relationship with a guy youre deeply attracted to.My most powerful sex tricks and tips arent on this site. If you want to access them and give your man backarching, toecurling, screaming orgasms that will keep him sexually obsessed with you, then you can learn these secret sex techniques in my private and discreet newsletter . Youll also learn the 5 dangerous mistakes that will ruin your sex life and relationship. Get it here .I often get emails from students despairing, and they all follow the same patternheck you may even be in this situation yourself. You are in a long term relationship or marriage. You love your man, but as the relationship progressed, hes become more a friend and a roommate instead of someone who gets you hot and bothered.Instead of always trying to rip each others clothes off, youre both struggling to get aroused and get in the mood for sex . You may have even tried multiple tricks or formulas you learned online to get the spark backbut it didnt work.Sexual tension is the key.Its that magical feeling that keeps you thinking about each other, wanting to be physically close and gets you completely aroused when youre in each others company.Talking dirty to your boyfriend or husband is the absolute best way to build sexual tension with him. You can learn some dirty talk phrases that will build sexual tension here .Intense Sex Using dirty talk can enhance and intensify your sex life. You can scream and shout all sorts of filthy, dirty and nasty profanities while you and your man are getting it on. Fuck me harder, I want to taste your cum, I love your cock!ButThis instructional video may be a bit shocking for you, but it will teach you how to make any man completely utterly obsessed with you only you by using 3 simple techniques. Check it out here to learn how .You can also use a bunch of other freaky and dirty talking phrases that make for more sensual, sexy love making. Whispering in his ear, Dont stop, I love it or You feel incredible is going to work much differently, but its still going to have a great outcome. You can learn more dirty talking phrases to use for more intense sex here .Keep Him Thinking About You Building sexual tension with your man is one obvious benefit to using the dirty talking phrases in this guide. An additional benefit is that it will keep him thinking of you.Theres nothing worse than when your man travels for work, is posted abroad, or he has an overly friendly and flirty female coworker. Using the right kind of dirty talk with him will keep him constantly thinking about you, fantasizing about when hes next going to see you and eagerly awaiting the next time you call or message him. You can learn some example dirty talk phrases to keep your man thinking about you here .When you combine building sexual tension, keeping your man thinking about you and having intense sex, you can probably see just how beneficial talking dirty can be for your relationship.How To Talk Dirty To Your Man Step By Step InstructionsNow that we have discussed why you need to talk dirty to your man, its time to learn how to do it.1. Start In The Shallow End Of The Pool If you suddenly start talking dirty to your man and are being extremely explicit, then there is a chance that he is going to get a little freaked out, especially if its the last thing that hed normally expect from you.Its a much better idea to slowly introduce dirty talk that is not too extreme or out there or explicit. Start slowly and build up to the more intense stuff.2. Begin In The Bedroom Youll also find that its easiest and most natural to introduce dirty talk in the bedroom or when you are both alone. This way there is far less pressure.Once you get comfortable talking dirty to your man in private, then start experimenting elsewhere. Theres nothing more exciting than seeing your mans reaction when you lean in and whisper something filthy in his ear while youre both in a crowded bar!3. Tailor It To His Tastes Almost every guy on the planet adores it when you talk dirty to him, butits vital that you quickly learn what type of dirty talk phrases he likes most. Some guys prefer it when you are subtle and even polite with your dirty talk while others prefer it when you are super explicit.So your man might love it when you say something simple and subtle like, I cant wait to get you home, while you are both at church. Or he may prefer it when you use incredibly explicit dirty talk like, I cant wait till we get home so I can get down on my knees and feel your cock throbbing in my mouth.The key is finding out which type of dirty talk works best on your man by experimenting and trying it out in different ways, whether thats sending him dirty text messages like the 43 sexts youll find here and the 11 extra dirty messageshere , or using these 64 dirty talk examples , these 91 extra dirty things to say to him or just asking him some dirty, naughty questions, like these 69 sexy questions .4. Tailor It To Your Tastes Of course you want to talk dirty in a way that turns your man on, this is obvious. But dont forget that you need to be having fun too! So many women forget this.If you feel uncomfortable using explicit language while talking dirty to your man or if you dont like the idea of sending him dirty text messages, dont feel that you have to! The key is making dirty talk work for you.However, my advice is that you should try it out first before deciding whether or not its for you.Its totally natural to feel a little nervous and even shy when you first start talking dirty to your man or when you try something new. As you do it more and more and see your husbands positive reaction, your confidence will grow.5. Dont Force It! The advice you read here is just that its advice. Its not a rigid law that works flawlessly every time or in every situation. Anyone that claims to have a secret, magic formula for talking dirty that works every time is lying.So if you try a particular dirty talking technique a few times and never get the reaction youre looking for, DONT FEEL LIKE YOU HAVE TO KEEP DOING IT! Just forget about that technique and try something else. Through this process of trial and error, seeing what works for you and what doesnt, youll slowly build up an encyclopedia of dirty talking phrases and strategies that will keepyour man obsessed.Some women find that the dirty talk that benefits them the most is the more explicit, out there kind while others find that very subtle dirty talk works best. Some excel at phone sex while others get better results from dirty text messages. They key is focusing on what works best for you.6. The Great Dirty Talking Lie There is a misconception that many women have when they are learning to talk dirty, its a trap I hope that you wont fall into. Some women think that the best way to talk dirty is to be very explicit and aggressive.As you read the chapters of this guide and try out some of the dirty talk phrases below , youll quickly realize that being subtle when you talk dirty to your man can often be more intense and powerful than being aggressive or explicit.For example, while you are at a party with your man, leaning into him and softly whispering, If theses people werent around, I would do terrible things to you, and then giving him a cheeky grin before continuing your conversation like normal is crazy powerful. Its going to blow your man away. Hell be constantly wondering what you meant, what you are going to do to him after the party and, of course, hes going to be very turned on too.But you didnt even say anything that outrageous. Keep this in mind as you experiment and learn to talk dirty and you will have one very happy man who is completely addicted to you and only you.Dirty Talk Phrases To Get You Started.Before reading through the other chapters of the Dirty Talking Guide, here are some dirty talking phrases to try on your man tonight.I have organized them into three groupsthe first group is for building sexual tension, the second is for intensifying sex, and the third group will keep you man thinking about you and only you.Dirty Talk Phrases For Building Sexual TensionIf we werent at this party and these people werent around, I would jump you right now!What would you say if I asked you to go down on me right now?It might sound greedy, but I need your cock so bad right now. Learn powerful blow job techniques in the Blow Job Guide .Im going to drain your balls tonight!I wish I could control myself better around you, but when I see you, all I want to do is rip your clothes off and fuck you.I need to feel you inside me.Nobody has ever fucked me like you do.Even when youre in a bad mood, I want to fuck you.Imgoing to mark you as mine tonight.When we get home, Im going to make you orgasm so hard.Knowing that you can completely overpower me makes me so crazy horny. Learn more rough sex tips here .What would you prefer I wear tonight, a thong or panties or nothing at all?Would you discipline me if I was acting bratty?Im going to break you tonight. Discover how to dominate your man with this guide .If these people werent here, I would be on my knees with your cock in my mouth.I can barelyconcentrate Ijust keep thinking about you grabbing me and taking me.Ive got a sexy surprise for you later x (great when sent as a text messageIMemail) Learn 43 more sext messages to send him here .I wish we could just stay in bed and have sex all day long Perfect when he is leaving your place to keep the sexual tension high.I love it when you wear tight clothes.Guess what color my panties are?We need to meet after work this horniness is killing me.I just want to wrap my pussy around your cock.You look so fucking hot in the morning.I wore these panties just for you.I feel so horny and helpless when you dominate me.Tonight is going to be a lot of fun (Perfect as a message)If you play your cards right, youve got some pleasurefun coming your way.Stop looking at me like that, its making me wet.Tonight were going to do what I want to do. But dont worry, its going to be a lot of fun!Im going to make you scream and shout tonight!Its a pity were not in bed right now because all I can think of is feeling your body on mine.Dirty Talk Phrases For Intense SexI just want to be your little fuck dollI want to feel your cock in my mouth. Chapter 2 of the Blow Job Guide has even more oral sex tips.I love it when you fuck me like a slut.Fuck me like you mean it!I dont want to feel my face or hands after youre done with me.I want to taste your cum.Making you cum hard is my number one priority right now.Taste me.I dont want to be able to walk tomorrow so fuck me harder.Degrade me.
February 8, 2018Use the arrows to browse through each sex positionThis sex positions guide has every position you will ever need to know.Rather than reading a sex positions book, youll find instructions and information on every enjoyable, popular and different sex position as well as some of the more exotic ones on this page. Just like our guide on how to give a good blow job , you may even want to bookmark it!Quick Warning: While this tutorial video is quite distressing, it will teach you how to make your man scream with pleasure and become sexually addicted to you. If you are interested in having a man completely obsessed with you and only you, then check out the detailed ( explicit!) oral sex tutorial video here .Girl On Top aka Straddling Your ManIf your man is always on top during sex or in the dominant position, then straddling him is a great way to switch things up and take on a more dominant role yourself. Below you will find some of the best Girl On Top sex positions: