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From the Dofantasy sex comic Dark Vengeance IV , by the artist Fernando.Comments Off on ElectroHot LabiaBen Franklins Shocking KissesFrom Twitter we learn that Ben Franklin invented some sort of electricshock kissing machine during his experiments with electricity:Benjamin Franklin had couples perform an electrical kiss so when their lips approach, they will be struck and shockt.Comments Off on Ben Franklins Shocking KissesHot Twat: The Electric PersuaderThis is a scene from Suzy In Bondage, by Robert Jenkins. Suzy and her husband unwisely incurred some gambling debts to a gangster, and now its time for her to pay them off with her ass:Remember what I told you, honey? That you were going to entertain my guests. Well, Ive got some, uh associates coming in from the East. Theyre gonna like that sweet little body of yours.Sue paled. I wont do it! she said flatly. I dont care if you threaten to tell my father about me or not. Im not going to be used any more!Hammers eyebrows raised menacingly. Oh? Then he turned to the door. Bring it in, Hank, he ordered.Hank came through the door, pushing a heavy metal table mounted on wheels. There were straps dangling from either end of it.Lie down, Hammer ordered the girl.No I wont!There was no doubt in Sues mind that Hammer wanted to strap her to the table. Her skin crawled at the thought of being at his mercy.Hank No! Sue shrieked as the two big men wrestled her up onto the table.Hank took the opportunity to cup one of her tits in his meaty hand. Sue shuddered at his touch.She was quickly strapped down, her hands over her head, her ankles bound to the lower end of the metal table, far apart, so that her thighs gaped open. Cool air washed over the girls naked cunt. She realized how vulnerable her crotch was.Now tell me again you wont do what I say, Hammer said amusedly.Stubborn anger flared in Sues eyes. I wont. I wont let you make me into a whore for your your associates!Smiling, Frank took a metal rod from his coat pocket. It was about an inch and a half thick and two feet long. Wires trailed from one end. The other end was rounded off smoothly.This, my sweet little Suzy, is something the French used when they were in Algeria. It was a magic wand that made people do whatever the French wanted them to do. They would betray their friends, tell secrets, promise to be good in the future. The French used it on men, women, old people, even little children. It was very effective. Ive always wanted to see just how effective.What what are you going to do with that thing? Sue gasped. She stared in fascination at the innocentlooking metal rod.Stuff it up your cunt and turn on the juice, Hammer said. I understand the affects are electrifying. He laughed loudly.You you wouldnt!I would! Hammer snapped back. Unless you agree to give your precious little body to whomever I say.No! I wont! Sue said desperately. I cant let you turn me into a into a thing!She believed, she hoped, Hammer was only bluffing. Sue looked toward Glenda for help. Certainly such a finelooking woman wouldnt let something like this happen to another woman right in front of her!But Sue was in for a shock, in more ways than one. Shes a stubborn little bitch, Glenda said coldly. Here, Frank let me do it.There was no sign of mercy in Glendas face. All Sue saw there was an inexplicable hate. Get Hank out of the room, Glenda said.Hammer ordered the obviously disappointed Hank to leave.Please dont, Sue whispered to Glenda.But Glenda slid the rod up between the cringing girls thighs. Sue flinched away from the cold metal.It helps if you put a little grease on it, Hammer said. Makes it conduct better.The grease was smeared on. Uuuuuhhhhhh, Sue grunted as Glenda started shoving the cold metal rod up into her cunt.She writhed and twisted on the table, but the rod went in easily. So far the only pain she felt was from the leather straps cutting into her wrists and ankles.The rod even felt a little good up inside her cunt as it slowly warmed from her body heat. Sue was afraid she was once again going to shame herself by reacting sexually.But she never had time. Glenda plugged the other end of the trailing wiring into a wall socket.Lets give the little bitch a light jolt to make her realize we mean business, Glenda said coldly. She flicked a switch in the base of the rod.AAAAIIIIYYYYYYY! Sue shrieked.It felt as if a thousand tiny claws were ripping at the inside of her cunt. Her whole pelvic area spasmed. Glenda turned off the power.Does that give you an idea? Glenda asked, smiling thinly.Sue lay panting on the tabletop. Her whole body was trembling with shock. Never before in her life had anything hurt her so much.Why why do you want to do this horrible thing to me? she asked the beautiful woman bending down over her.Only Glenda wasnt beautiful at the moment. Her face was twisted into an ugly mask of hate. I detest you spoiled little rich bitches, she snarled. Always getting the best and the most. Treating other kids like dirt. Not even speaking to what you call poor white trash. Jesus. Smirking little princesses like you helped make my life miserable a long time ago. Until I learned how soft and gutless you are.Sue was stunned. Hammer suddenly asked her if she was going to do as he asked.I hate you, you slimy toad! she burst out in one last spasm of courage.Why you little slut! Hammer reached over and twisted a dial in the base of the rod. Glenda pushed the switch.AAAAAGGGGHHHHH! Sue wailed.It was ten times worse than the first. She hadnt thought anything could be more agonizing than what had happened before, but she had been wrong. Her lithe young body twisted and writhed on the tabletop. Every muscle and tendon stood out starkly.They left the current on a long time. When they finally turned it off, Sue was halfunconscious.That was about quarterpower, Glenda said. I hear that in Chile, they sometimes get it up to about halfpower before the victims cunt is ruined forever.That did it. Sue might have been able to take more pain. But the thought of being permanently mutilated was too much. Shed do as Hammer demanded. She might be able to escape later.Please! Dont do it again! she babbled. Ill do anything you say!Glenda smiled. Lets test her, Frank, she said with a tight smile. Let her up.

Life After Porn: 5 Things My Husband Did to Rebuild Trust Written by Micah HornerStanding in a dark Las Vegas hotel room with my ear cupped to the bathroom door, I heard a voice that I had never heard before. It was the voice of a man chatting with and making arrangements to meet with a prostitute later that evening. This was not the man I married eight years ago! Immediately fear seemed to strangle me. My body shook uncontrollably at just the glimpse of the depth of darkness my husband was entangled in.This moment became just the beginning of the unveiling of my husbands secret life of sexual addiction. I was finally seeing that his little problem with pornography wasnt such a little problem at all. The next few days and weeks became his horrendous unveiling of a lifestyle of infidelity, beginning with pornography and spiraling into a limitless pit of sexual sin.Although there were specific things Michael did that helped rebuild my trust, each action would have been meaningless apart from a foundation of true brokenness and repentance. I had seen lots of tears over the years, but genuine repentance looked very different than anything I had ever seen in him before. No longer was he just sorry he got caught or that he had to face consequences, but he was literally sick over where this addiction had taken him.Of course, I could have forgiven Michael without continuing a relationship with him, because forgiveness only requires one. However, rebuilding trust requires two. It requires a relationship and at least the start of reconciliation.As I worked on forgiveness, he worked on doing anything necessary for rebuilding trust into our marriage. Here are five of those things.1. Commitment to a Full Disclosure of the TruthInitially there were three major dumptruck type confessions of junk. But beyond that, he made a commitment to being a truthteller every time a memory was triggered.I got to where I hated the words, Micah, I need to tell you something. It was odd. Even though I hated hearing it, those moments of truth were also somehow rebuilding trust. We both knew that if he never disclosed those things, I wouldve never known. Yet he made the continual choice to wipe the slate clean and repair the foundation that had been cracked with lies.2. Took Full ResponsibilityHis lifestyle cost us a lot. It nearly destroyed our marriage, small business, finances, reputation, friendships, family relationships, and testimonypretty much everything that was important to us.Previously, he was the king of excuses. After real repentance, however, he no longer tried to minimize, deny, or justify his actions or their consequences. He didnt try to shift the blame to someone else. Instead, I saw him consistently take ownership of his actions by humbling himself before others and me, admitting his wrongs, and asking for the opportunity to make the wrongs right.3. Willingly Set Up BoundariesInitially, I gave him a list of practical things he could do that would help me see that he was sincerely striving for purity. I never had to enforce or nag these issues. He willingly put up boundaries in his life, and then set up others on his own. Boundaries will look a little different for everyone, but some of the boundaries looked like:Being accountable to other godly menSubmitting to godly marriage counseling and cooperating with anything asked of himInstalling Internet protection and not being on an unprotected computerChanging cell phone number getting rid of old contactsHaving no unaccountable timeGiving me a list of all email accounts and passwordsGoing to bed at the same time I didNot watching anything that could trigger lustful desiresRelated: Boundaries for Couples Facing Porn Addiction4. Pursued Other Forms of Intimacy Besides SexAfter our separation, Michael initiated a 90day abstinence period in order to work on building emotional and spiritual intimacy back into our marriage.That time was both fulfilling and draining. It was draining because issues surfaced that we couldnt gloss over with sex. We had to deal with them.But it was fulfilling because it took the pressure of physical intimacy off the table. It allowed us to actively pursue rebuilding our relationship with physical intimacy as the overflow of our emotional and spiritual intimacy. It also helped to reset his brain chemically, and prove to us both that sex was no longer going to be an idol his life.Related: Should Married Couples Fast from Sex During a Porn Detox?5. Passionately Pursued GodWithout a doubt, the most important thing he did to rebuild my trust was passionately pursue God. In his own strength, I knew that I would never be able to trust him again. Hed tried in the past to quit viewing porn on his own. The results were always a deeper spiral of degrading sin. I determined that as long as I saw an active pursuit on his part, and I saw evidences of the Spirits work in his life,then I was going to choose to trust. I may not be able to trust him, but I could trust the Lord in him!This may be a good start, but its just thata start. I can still hear my counselor saying, Trust is lost by the bucketfuls, and gained by the dropfuls. The only way to rebuild trust is by consistency over a period of time.Related: Hope After Porn4 Womens Stories of Heartbreak and HealingTo anyone looking in, we were a hopeless case. The sin was just too extensive. It took no less than the supernatural power of God and two willing hearts to do the tough work of obedience. That was six years ago. Despite near destruction, our marriage continues to flourish as Michael continues to walk in purity and submission to the Lord.About the author, Micah HornerMicah Horner is a wife, homeschool momma of five, student, and teacher of the Word. She and her husband, Michael, have been radically transformed by the supernatural grace and power of God to overcome the costly effects of pornography within their marriage. Along with being passionate about teachingtraining her own children to walk in the light, share the light, and be the light, she lives to teach, train, and build women to live beyond themselvesfor Christ and the next generation. Her husband is an Area Director of Man In the Mirror Ministries, which also exists to build and disciple men. Together they have made it their life purpose to intentionally invest in others by giving hope to the hurting and solid truth to the hungry.View all posts by Micah Horner Hope After PornPorn use (and even adultery) doesnt always mean that a marriage is over. Get this free ebook to read how four betrayed wives found healing for themselves and for their marriages.May 12, 2014 at 11:59 amWonderful article Micah. All 5 actions you mentioned are very important. I would go so far as to call them, requirements, for most couples.The last two paragraphs are bulls eye statements. For true recovery to take place, understanding the time it takes to rebuild trust and that It took (takes) no less than the supernatural power of God and two willing hearts to do the tough work of obedience, is without debate critical to grasp.Thanks, Micah, for sharing this story. I pray trust God has and will use it powerfully.Blessings to you and Michael.May 12, 2014 at 4:07 pmThank you, Dan! You are absolutely right. That point is extremely critical to understand, and unfortunately too few couples end up grasping that truth. In fact, every action listed is just a result of that one statement! This may sound simplistic, but, truly, when two people get their hearts right with the Lord, everything else will fall into place as they walk in obedience to Him.Im so thankful for opportunities to share His victory. Weve been so amazingly transformed that Michael and I both feel that we would be ungrateful and disobedient not to share the victory and hope that the Lord has given us!May 20, 2014 at 9:34 amThank you for this article. I am crying out to the Lord daily. I was a police officer for 18 years and an instructor for my department. I also play and sing in my worship team at my church. I also have three children. I was fired from my job six months ago for LOOKING AT PORNOGRAPHY WHILE AT WORK ON THE COMPUTER. Not only did I get fired, I will likely never be a police officer ever again. I now make minimum wage at a retail outlet.The worse part of this is that my wife is devastated, humiliated, and resentful. Yesterday, she presented me with divorce papers. I dont know what to say or do. She is raging with fear and unforgivness, while Im so full of energy and passion to fight for our marriage. She see my porn viewing as an affair and feels that she has biblical justification to divorce me. I know that she is filled with fear and hurt. I know that shes afraid that theres more hidden, like a secret girlfriend. I am ashamed and panic stricken. I dont know what to do. It will truly take the loving hand of Christ to save our marriage. I wish someone could speak love and hope into her heartbut it will be only Jesus that does, if he chooses to. Im so sorry.I will try to push forward and stay true to Him, either way. I will be attending an addictions group in a couple days and Ill continue to do so whether we stay married or not. Its been difficult for me to see my porn use as an addiction as Ive gone years without viewing it. But, its been my escape when Ive been overwhelmed by depression and feelings of rejection or failure. I wish my wife would understand that it has NEVER been about sex, or an attempt to leave her. Im so sorry. If you are looking at porn, reach out for help.Susana M. DiazMay 23, 2014 at 7:51 pmI enjoyed reading Micahs story. and I believe in what covenant eyes is doing. I had covenant eyes. and truth be told he got around the whole system over and over. I decided that i was loosing the battle. I decided to let him be in the hands of the Lord. I have my doubts and fears of what he is doing. I decided to give my marriage a chance after betrayal. My daughters grades went up and she has been better. I feel sometimes disconnected from him and feel that i will not allow him to betray me again. So my answer is Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me. I will pack and leave. Its great to hear stories like this one. and that it came from his heart to change. Mine talks like i hate porn and their is no one else. I want to honor the Lord but he still says he has his weaknesses. So i completely surrender to Christ!Lisa EldredMay 27, 2014 at 11:24 amGlad to hear youre experiencing success!If your husband is still using Covenant Eyes and still struggling with being able to circumvent, you may want to ask him to list all the methods hes used and share them with you and any other Accountability Partners he has. If youre aware of them, youll be able to look for evidence of them, and take personal steps to ensure he doesnt use them. (For that matter, email the list to us at supportcovenanteyes.com so we can keep them on our radar.)Heres a freebie example: one weakness of our iPhone browser app is that its a browser app. Its not fulldevice Accountability. (Weve got ideas to fix that, but were not there yet.) If your husband has an iPhone, you can lock down other browsers (like Safari) and other webenabled apps (like Facebook) to make sure he only browses the Internet on our monitored browser.Nellie QuistOctober 12, 2015 at 9:42 pmDear Micah,My husband and i did not have any sexual intimacy for 6 yrs. And then i found out he was addicted to porn. He has gone through classes and his healing seems to be authentic but it has been 2 yrs. Now and we have had physical intimacy 2 times.i have extended abunant grace and kindness to him as he works through his issues and i work through mine. I have talked with him before about this and i am aware that he experiences ED. I have asked him to go to the Dr. To see if there is anything that can be done or if there is an emotional dysfunction concerning physical intimacy. Its always the same thing, Im sorry, i know Ive been selfish. Then he takes me out to dinner just him and i which is rare and i believe he has no intention of going to the Dr. I love him and raw sex is not the only kind of physical intimacy. He literally has no desire for me but thinks telling me Im beautiful will somehow make me forget the real problem because Im just this needy little women that will take crumbs. Ibviously he has payed attention to my growth because this needy little women has no need for manipulative flattery. I will only communicate with honesty and my plan is to give him 6 months to follow through with his word about going to the Dr. If he doesnt, he will be greeted at the door with his bags and told to not come back until he fullfills his word about going to the Dr. And taking the initiative to set up and follow through with appointments concerning his situation.Kay BrunerOctober 13, 2015 at 11:19 amI wonder why he is so afraid of going to the doctor. Im glad youve been able to identify your boundaries. Sometimes holding firm to those boundaries does motivate others to change sometimes it doesnt. Either way, we get to be healthy, no matter what the other person chooses. Blessings, KayReginaMay 2, 2017 at 12:35 amI am in a broken marriage because of the same things I have no idea how to help our marriage to have trust again and heal from so much damage. My husband who says he wants to change still continues to deceive me by his actions. I feel hopeless and that I cannot live like this.Kay BrunerMay 4, 2017 at 11:01 amHi Regina,Unfortunately, youre not in charge of rebuilding trust. Your husband needs to be trustworthy. When he continues in old patterns of deception, he is not worthy of trust, and it would be foolish to trust him.I think it would be wise on your part to allow him the freedom of his choices, while you turn to what you actually CAN control: your own good health and healing. Find a counselor who can help you process your emotions, and think about healthy boundaries. Here , here , and here are some articles about boundaries. Find a group to help you process the trauma. Look into the online resources at Bloom for Women.Trying to control another person is always a hopeless task! Unless and until they want to participate in their own healing, you will always wind up frustrated and exhausted, trying to change what you cant change.Whatever he chooses, though, YOU CAN CHOOSE to be healthy and whole.Peace to you,He has ruined our marriage (33 years), ruined my life, and devastated our grown kids. I HATE him.JohnSeptember 6, 2017 at 11:47 amHello, Micah. I found your article very powerful and very hopeful. I am seeking any advice you or your readers could give me. I encountered porn at a young age, and I realize now, after years of abusing my wife emotionally and physically, that I have objectified her and all women largely because of porn. I have left a trail of destruction behind me that has had terrible effects on my wife and our children because of my selfabsorption and expectations that she exists to serve me. I struggle every day with my failure to love. Please help.VictoriaSeptember 11, 2017 at 1:05 pmGosh if you want to live in that bondage of watching every little move he makes, not being able to watch movies or tv shows that might spark that desire for unhealthy fantasy or porn, not being able to relax on a beach where women are half naked, not feeling comfortable being around sexy girlfriends or family members because their boobs are glistening thru their shirts or their bikinis are too small and your creeper hubby might be getting aroused and want to masturbate to thoughts of themThat is MISERY and a life of living in bondage. I know because I lived it for 23 months of marriage with my wonderfully God fearing hubby that was attending a Sex Addiction group at Real Life Ministries, going to Bible Study, praying, etc..but ! Lying to me and the men in his groups, and after alllllll that I caught him looking at Massage Porn and desiring that BS again. I RAN to the divorce Lawyer and was done. I have a life worth living in peace and God does not want that worldly bullshit to ruin me. I know. Bye Bye creeper, selfish, self serving husband. Now hes begging to come back, hes healed and will never do that again he says..never lie again he says, its one to many times and my heart is no longer his. That is the consequence these men need.Do not be a slave to their sin. I will counsel and advise and beg women to leave these men.SueWhat do you do if your husband wont do any of these things? I seriously am asking.MeganJanuary 26, 2018 at 8:06 pmMy husband is addicted to porn he constantly denies it . He has admitted to previous times.but in spam and utube.all this vile stuff comes up all the timeDay after day.he doesnt think or want to change.im sure sure if we should separate.been together 28 years.he could even be meeting up with women.je constanly says i have all the problems.Kay BrunerJanuary 29, 2018 at 3:15 pmIm so, so sorry. It sounds like on top of his behaviors, hes gaslighting you. I would encourage you to find a counselor who can help you process through this and build healthy boundaries. Here , here , and here are some articles on boundaries that might help. And take a look at the online resources at Bloom for Women I think youll find those helpful as well. No matter what he chooses, I hope you will choose to be healthy and whole. Peace to you, KaySueWhat if your husband wont do any of these?Kay BrunerJanuary 29, 2018 at 2:59 pmThen its time to consider what boundaries are appropriate, given his lack of trustworthy behavior. Here , here , and here are some articles on boundaries to get you started. You may want to find a counselor to help you process through whats appropriate for you now. Youll also appreciate the online resources at Bloom for Women . Whatever your husband chooses, YOU can choose to be healthy and whole! Peace to you, KayDale ScottMay 13, 2014 at 6:48 pmGreat article Micah. I appreciate all 5 points. I think it appropriate to point out however that step number 5 calls for further elaboration. Pursuing God passionately is really the only to experience the heart change necessary to stay clear of the quick sand of lust. But many men would ask, How do i pursue God passionately?We would respond with encouraging men to develop a discipline in the 3 primary spiritual disciplines that bring us closer to Jesus.1. Time in the word of God daily. This cant be emphasized enough for men whether struggling with lust in any form or not. The bible references abound much to confirm the critical nature of this discipline, however Psalm 1, and John 15 are good places to start.2. PrayerThis is often neglected, or excused with comments like, I pray in the car and the shower. Praise God for praying in the shower, however the Lord commands men in the scripture that among you there must be even a hint of sexual immoralityeph 5:3. The only way to live that out is to have a vital rich connection to the Lord Jesus Christ is prayer. The scripture says over and over in the 4 gospels that Jesus often retreated to lonely places and prayer. We know that Peter and Paul held to the Jewish tradition of praying at 9, 12, and 3pm. Job was a man of prayer, rising early in the morning and we know he honored the covenant he made with his eyes. This is important for the grace needed to fight the good fight, especially for the man fresh out of a dark place.3. Fellowship (which you already stated in step 3, however it probably warrants a stronger emphasis). This would include not only being accountable to other men but also being disciplined by a strong more mature believe which is ideally developed within the church community.I share my thoughts only because I wish someone had shared these with me much sooner than I received them. God made the promise that You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart Jere 29:13 Too many men dont know how to seek, and are left to whimsical preponderances that produce no fruit. Or at least that was my story.Anyway, thank you again for sharing.your story of victory and grace.May 18, 2014 at 6:47 pmAmen, Dale! Thank you for filling in the gaps that I could get to in such a short post! I might just add one thing: The witness of the Holy Spirit. Prior to brokenness, my husband had done all of these things (seemingly well at times). However because he had never truly come to repentance, he had always done those things in the flesh. The Bible says that the flesh profits nothing. So we can read, pray, and fellowship, but without the help of the indwelling Holy Spirit its possible for even those things to amount to nothing. The natural man cannot understand the things of the Spirit.So for some who may be reading this and say, Well, Ive done all those things and still no change, maybe its not just a sin issue but a salvation issue. That was true for my husband, who had grown up in church all his life. He had a whole lot of head knowledge, but lived a powerless life against sin and temptation. But once the Spirit took over everything changed!Thank you again, Dale. Great comment!JaredMay 14, 2014 at 1:39 pmMicah,Thank you for your testimony! I have to agree that number 5 is the most important. I know for me, the thing that I had to realize was that even though I was asking God for help, I thought on a small level that I could beat sexual sin on my own. I didnt get to experience real release and freedom from my sin until I realized that I had to completely surrender to God and understand that there was no victory until I surrendered to Him. That doesnt mean that I never struggle anymore or that I dont have to be careful. On the contrary, what it means is that I have to surrender COMPLETELY every day to Him and let Him overcome my sin for me, just like He overcame sin when He lived as a man on this earth.I really appreciate your testimony and pursuit of God that you refer to in your husband. If we are not pursuing Him, then all hope is lost. Thank you.May 14, 2014 at 1:42 pmThank you Micah! Im sorry you and your husband have had such a hard time but Im grateful that you shared what you did. Im a 32 year old Christian pretty much alone in my beliefs where I currently live. I have an addiction to pornography that Im trying to overcome because I wish to be pure of heart and a good husband if I ever get married. Ive been praying that if its in Gods will that he send me a spouse. I havent looked at pornography in about two weeks and was fighting a strong urge to view it when I heard I received an email. I opened it and read your story and it has given me the grace for now to continue to resist because it reminded me that the sin of pornography hurts more than just the viewer. I really wish to have a holy marriage one day and to see how it transformed your husband put some sense back into my head. Ill keep yall in my prayers and thank you for taking the hard but right road. Also, thanks be to God for giving both of you the grace to do it. Pornography brings such a spiritual blindness that seems to sneak up in unforeseen moments of weakness. Its so hardMay 15, 2014 at 12:43 amMicah, your comment on your husband initiating a 90 day fast from intimacy caught my attention as a similar commitment has been of significant healing for my wife and I. I committed to fasting from sexual intimacy for 3 months also but my wife suggested a 3 month period where sexual intimacy would be reserved for one planned day a week. During those 6 days I have asked God to reveal more of His purposes for human sexuality as well as why He would release such a dangerous passion into creation. Hes taught me much.But a huge unexpected blessing of this is that my wife can now receive my physical touch and kind words throughout the week without doubting my motives. It has rekindled a great degree of non sexual intimacy, playfulness and relational comfort. Much more could be said, but I wonder if other marriages could be helped by planned times of prayerful abstinence in marriage.Clifford MooreMay 15, 2014 at 6:41 amLG,I hear your story. I hear your want to overcome this sin. Each temptation is its own battle. The war over sin and temptation already has an outcome. WE WIN! We win because Christ has fought the fight for us and hold victory! Dutifully, give over very thought of temptation over to God. Be a man who prays Proverbs 4:2027. Read it. Commit it to memory.Also, I have done a study recently that has rocked my world. John 15, you know Jesus is the true vine. We have to abide (i.e. Make conscience effort to live in Christ) Him. Deuteronomy 32:32 tells us that the destructive vine comes from Sodom and from the fields of Gomorrah. Where are you planted? Its a daily decision to abide in Christ.In our selfishness, we choose not to abide in Christ but rather in the enemy and his plans. The enemy is only here to destroy you. Holdfast to Gods perfection through the Son by the power of the Spirit. Fight the fight! You are not alone! Press on and press on, Brother!Micah HornerMay 18, 2014 at 5:37 pmLG, Im so sorry you feel like your having to battle this beast alone! However thats just a lie from the enemy. Satan wants to keep you isolated and alone, but dont let him. Pray that the Lord would send you another godly man who will do battle with you.I didnt understand what a dangerous and entrapping stronghold pornography is until my husband finally let me in on the reality of his battle. One thing is for sure: He did not fight this alone! Not only did we both desperately fight on our knees together, but several godly men came alongside of him and discipled him into a deeper walk with Christ. In addition to meeting with three different men weekly for accountability and discipleship, he also attended counseling and two other groups of men battling this together on a weekly basis. It was a lot, but well worth if for a season. I dont say that because I think thats what you need to do, only to serve as an example that you cannot win this alone. We were made for community. Pray that the Lord will send you some other godly men whos spiritual depth you would like to emulate and ask them to walk this road with you and at the same time teach you what it looks like to live a life more controlled by the Holy Spirit moment by moment.Also, I cannot tell you the value of hiding Gods word in your heart!! As you practice memorizing and meditating on the Word, it begins to renew your mind and transform you from the inside out! I strongly encourage you to start with 1 Cor. 10:13 No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to man, but God is FAITHFUL who WILL NOT allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will make a way of escapeevery time!!! I love that! Memorize it, meditate on it, believe it, and obey it!Im praying for you, brotherthat you would have a fresh view of a holy God who is able to break every chain and release every captive. And I pray for your surrender to His ways of leading you, whatever that may look like. Brokenness is painful! But it is such a gift!Michael HornerMay 20, 2014 at 12:24 amLG,I appreciate your transparency brother. I totally agree with my wife, Micah! You can overcome this with the Spirits help and the help of other brothers to sharpen you, encourage you, challenge you, and pour their lives into you! 2 Corinthians 3:17 . . . where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. Galatians 5:16 But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh. You, LG have no ability to walk in freedom apart from the supernatural power of the Holy Spirit. Romans 7:18 says For I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my flesh. For the desire to do what is good is with me, but there is NO ABILITY to do it. You must abide in the vine, according to John 15:5, apart from abiding in the vine. . . in a love relationship with Jesus, you will not produce His fruit, Galatians 5:2223. One of the fruits of the Spirt is self control. You, my brother can overcome this! Fight brother!Jeannine TMay 14, 2014 at 6:13 pmThank you for sharing your story. It brought me to tears. I found out that my husband has had a lifelong porn addiction shortly after we were married. I have struggled with whether or not it would be biblical to separate from him, as he is not at all repentant. In fact, he has recently, today in fact, asked me to just accept this, and suggested that it might help me to so this if I would participate with him in the viewing of porn and subsequent masturbation. So today, as painful as this decision is, I have made the decided to separate from my husband. I now have just returned home from work, when this article showed up in my email.May 15, 2014 at 10:14 amhugThats a rough spot to be in. Keep praying for him. Hopefully a separation will be the wakeup call he needs. If you havent already done so, check out Hope After Porn for stories of wives in similar situations.Micah HornerMay 18, 2014 at 6:04 pmJeannine, Im so sorry! I know exactly the struggle youre talking about. I too wrestled with whether or not a separation could be justified biblically. In fact, there was a point when I knew in my heart that that was where the Lord was leading me, but I just fought with Lord over it. One morning after falling asleep the night before begging the Lord for answers, he led me to Jer. 3 in my quiet time and confirmed what he wanted me to do. In Jer. 3 the Lord issues his people a certificate of divorce, however if you continue reading youll see that it came with a promise of full and complete restoration of fellowship if they would only repent of their ways. So, really it was more of a separation. The Lord showed me that my separating from him was really me getting out of the way so that the Lord could do His major heart surgery on him. I wasnt giving up on our marriage I was releasing my husband to the Lord.Secondly, pain is good. It lets us know that theres a problem. If we as wives never allow our husbands to feel the consequences to there sin, then often times they wont realize theres a problem. God disciplines those he loves. You love your husband enough to not allow him to continue hurting God, himself, you, and many others Im sure.Thirdly, draw closely to the Lord like never before. You are in the perfect position to hear from Him! Although I hated being in that painful place, I sure loved the sweetness of the intimacy I had with Him. And dont try to look too far into the future. Just let the Lord guide you day by day. He WILL show you exactly which steps to take, if you will just ask. Walk carefully. Even well meaning Christians will try to give you advise that doesnt measure up to what the Lord is telling you to do. Seek Him first in EVERY decision you make during this time (and every time really). Praying for you!!LanaMay 19, 2014 at 4:53 amThere is a wonderful healing ministry to free men from pornography Pure Desire by Dr. Ted Roberts along with his wife Diane Roberts who helps the wife deal with the trauma from her husband. There is real hope in this process! Their latest DVD Conqueror Series is a must as well for understanding the whyhow etc and what must be done for healingby both the husband and the wife!BobMay 15, 2014 at 12:37 amThis is an excellent sermon with hope and practical strategies for conquering a porn addiction. It is free. I am not selling this or trying to get web traffic or something. I am just a father who is helping his son get past this and discovered this message: http:www.praize.comvideosDetailedMultipleMinistriesBreakingPornAddictionThroughGraceJ1004.htmlMay 15, 2014 at 11:19 amIm in my fifties and have struggled with porn addiction for 15 years ever since I got the internet in my home. I have an amazing wife and two adult daughters. Ive confessed my addiction to my wife pastor at the urging of the Holy Spirit.I guess Id just like to say to spouses out there that if their man is a real Christian, he HATES his addiction but loves it at the same time. An addict knows in the long term his addiction will ruin him, but in the short term it gives him escape. I believe its all about ESCAPE. Who doesnt hate themselves at times, or their life? Pornpromiscuity offers a way out. Its very brief, and the addict knows it wont last BUT its such a great escape. Yes, its all a fantasy that dissolves into a harsher reality after every consumption it truly is poison that kills us a little or a lot more each time and YET for that brief while I can escape who I am or where Im at. And for most of us, porn has been programmed into our hardwiring at an early age as teenagers or even earlier.Porn is EVERYWHERE today. Watch the Oscars and see exposed breasts and yes impossible to believe the day has come exposed vaginas. That said, what some women wear to the evangelical church I attend makes me cringe. What are they thinking? And not just the teens but often the mothers as well. Short skirts, high heels, lots of cleavage . . . Whatever happened to modesty? Christian women youve gotta know this is NOT the way to dress. Is it a mans fault that this kind of inappropriate dress triggers him? Educate yourselves, your daughters. Slutty is in style in the world, but were not supposed to be conformed to the world.And the Internet is a sea of porn. You must protect your children as much as possible in your home. Boys will always be exposed to it by their friends but gotta keep your home computers free of it. How as Christians can we NOT use the internet these days? It seems to be the basis for almost all facets of modern life. And yet porn is always only a click away. Lord help us!BobThank you for your comments Bob! I share your frustration, especially in regards to the dress in church. There are a few things I think will help curb some of the worldliness we see in the church.1) The church needs to place a higher value on holiness.2) Godly men and women need to disciple the next generation.3) Godly men in the church need to be willing to stand up to the women as a whole and LOVINGLY say that this type dress isnt tolerable.That being said, we need to love those who struggle in that area just as much as anyone else, knowing that they too are deceived by the enemy, but at the same time be willing to speak the truth. Also, we do need to remember that the church is full of lost people! Many of those women who I may be tempted to be critical of, are really just being an outward reflection of the inward condition of their hearts. So, that being said, I would never approach an unbeliever in the same way I would approach a believer.Thank you again for your comments. I agree that the only hope we have is Christ. The days are becoming increasingly dark and none of us can afford to be complacent in the battle! Blessings, Bob.January 30, 2017 at 2:03 pmI had it too. No longer. Revelation will free you. Mine was slow. Also, I never accepted delving deep into it, I self limited using only the minimum content for my fix. I was in a constant communication asking for revelation. I felt empty, the visual no longer worked, and I desired sharing. I saw that the sharing did not exist and I was left with a hole. The hole was probably the size of the sun. I wished to die. Porn did not work for me anymore, I now knew of my hole. I did pursue affairs, but I could not bring myself to it. I would rather die alone then drag others into my abyss, perhaps love is my weakness. I engaged my wife, heavily, giving to her. No abstinence for me, I did the opposite. Incidentally, during one of my affair encounters, I began to see the power trip that some women get from stimulating this lust in men. She had me pretty close to tears enticing me with what I knew I would not betray. I am still getting over that woman, and my bet is that I never will. Such is the power of this matter. We as men must not hate these women addicted to their power anymore than wome should hate us for or lust. My wife keeps me well, so their power is not strong upon me. I do try to look away in general, and I will offer nothing but kindness regardless, which not all men do. I think perhaps that topic becomes part2 of the story.December 21, 2017 at 8:38 amSorry, you sound like a creep. If your mindset is in the correct place it does not matter what you deem appropriate or inappropriate dress. It would not seem provocative, if you look at those women as the beautiful wives, mothers, daughters and women who belong to Christ that they are. How dare you try to lay your perverted thinking at the feet of any woman. You are soley responsible for your thoughts, that only you can control. You sound like your escaping is due to being unhappy with who you are and you dont like yourself. It sounds like you are escaping you. I think you should change the way you look at and think of women and change yourself in a way that makes you happy to be you. And learn to have fun sex with YOUR WIFE!Kay BrunerJanuary 5, 2018 at 1:29 pmThanks for this, Barb. I agree with you that the objectification of women is the problem, not the way they are dressed. Blaming women for the way they dress is just a way to avoid taking responsibility for your own behaviors. Thanks for pointing that out. KayLGMay 16, 2014 at 2:24 pmClifford MooreThanks for the response. Ill do what you say. Its such a struggle but Im hanging in there.Jeannine TIll be praying for you and your marriage. Im sure God doesnt want it to break up. Maybe separation is what will do it for him. I know you are disheartened by his refusal to change and it seems like there is no hope when you hear things from him about how he still thinks porn is great after all this time, but miracles do happen and flawed people do change because God is greater than any sin imaginable. His mercy is considered one of His greatest attributes so whatever you do, do with God and listen to him. He might have paired you two together for this reason. For Your husband, it might mean the saving of his soul and for you prayer, patience and perseverance. Just like Clifford Moore told me before your post, you arent in this alone. We are all in this together because Christians are a body of unityMay 17, 2014 at 1:43 pmI have asked for this article to be removed. I have posted on Facebook the following: THE WORST ADVICE! This does not heal relationships. IT DESTROYS. Men confessing to women makes them babies answering to Mommies. My professional work is successfully helping men stop sexual acting out behaviors. The FIRST thing I teach them is how to know if a woman is a coaddict who needs to stop HER behaviors found at cosarecovery.orgbehaviors.html (see number 12 for snoopervising). My clients have much better marriages and sexual sobriety that I attribute to dignity and integrity from confidence in their impulse control and emotional regulation skills. STOP TREATING MEN LIKE CHILDREN. PLEASE! note: I am asking Covenant Eyes to stop promoting this POISON. CONFESSIONS do NOT rebuild trust. They increase the emasculation. Accountability partners MUST be other men who share good values.May 19, 2014 at 10:18 amWere actually with you, at least to a certain extent: we recommend against spouses being the sole accountability partner, especially in early recovery when the porn user inevitably will fall. In general, we subscribe to the philosophy that Dr. Doug Weiss describes : that the wife should choose how much she gets to know, but, as he explains, the addicts thoughtlife can be overwhelming for a wife, and as you say, each man needs another man who shares good values as his primary Accountability Partner.Regarding this story, its meant to be descriptive, not prescriptive. This is what saved this couples marriage, but every situation will be different.MarcFantastic! Men got the lust, but women love that lust in men. The power it gives them is addicting! You got it!Tye JJuly 4, 2017 at 3:40 pmI agree. I just found out that my husband has been viewing porn and masturbating at workHe found a way around the filters on the work computers. Hes been on CE for several years, and has find a way around that as well. Hes been lying to his accountability partner this entire time. Hes been looking at soft core on FB, which doesnt show up on CE. I have ZERO safety from his lust. Hes found a way to break every boundary we set together as a couple. You cant make them be, or do anything. He is going to do what he wantsunfortunately. He seems contrite but thats always the wayisnt it? Hes sorry he got caughtagain. Its the masturbating at work I cant deal with, and looking at porn as his nurses walk in and out of the officeany time of the day, no rhyme or reason. He hasnt been caught yetat least that what he says.LaurieMay 19, 2014 at 6:55 pmThanks for this article. Im 31. Ive been struggling with this issue since I was 11 or 12. The insatiable hunger for pleasure lead to the use of porn which lead to unbearable guilt which weakened my resistance. This cycle happened for 20 years. My wife found out ONE MONTH after our wedding. (What a honeymoon!). I was sure that I had kicked it. So, it wasnt a lie when I told her that it was in my past. But, when it reemerged, I didnt tell her. I didnt tell anyone. I was so ashamed. It has come and gone. Ive never been able to kick it for more than a couple months. At the time of writing this, Ive been clean for 8 MONTHS! But I wasnt free from guilt.Weve been married almost 8 years. Last week, my wife found in my YouTube history, a video that I had clicked on. I hadnt searched for it, or for anything untoward, but it was present in a page of various water cooler type viral videos that I was viewing. It wasnt porn, but it wasnt something that I should have been watching. And, to be frank, I was wracked with guilt simply for clicking on it and I clicked away almost immediately.After she found that though, I knew her trust was shaken. On Saturday evening, we were having a moment of closeness and vulnerability. It started with a trickle. Then the dam broke. Then we didnt sleep. Then we met with our pastor who suggested we check out covenant eyes.Today, Monday, I met a councilor. Im going back tomorrow. Im going to attend a meeting of celebrate recovery this week. THIS TIME ITS OVER! 20 years of lying and hiding and feeling ashamed and being emotionally absent. 8 years of marriage not being able to get close to my wife who is the most beautiful and kind woman Ive ever met. 8 years of not being the man that God intended me to be for her.I cant wait to see what God has in store for me and for our marriage!After the confession, I spent a lot of time on my knees because Ive been shunning God all this time. Hes been at my door, but Ive been holding it shut for want of him not finding out whats in my houselike he doesnt knowI cried out to God. IM FREE. PLEASE COME IN!May 20, 2014 at 11:52 amHi Steve,Thanks for sharing your story with us. I hope the addition of Covenant Eyes, a newfound commitment to community and honesty, pastoral counsel, and solid accountability will help you overcoming this habit!Wonderful article.Pornography these days is one of the biggest problem societies are facing.I too wrote an article addressing the correlation of Human Trafficking and Pornography and common myths about it.Our Ironical Passion against human trafficking http:srivastavapallavi.blogspot.com201405imagecourtesyhttpblog.htmlHave a look and share it as much as we can, because we all know how crucial it is to spread awareness.May 23, 2014 at 6:40 pmHi, thank you sooo much for all the very helpful articles in your website. And to everyone who has shared their story, thank you for giving me hope. I stumbled on this website while looking for solutions to my marriage challenge. I have been married for four years and have recently observed my husband has been viewing porn sites (3 months ago). This was after I returned home from studying abroad so I felt terribly responsible for this new development, i felt my absence pushed him to porn. I did not know how to deal with it and I did not know who to talk to (I am not comfortable discussing this issue with any of my local church pastors). So, I reassured myself he will stop since I had come back home for good. Unfortunately, he has continued viewing these porn sites. I was most horrified to see a porn video on his phone despite the fact that he knows our little 3 year old daughter frequently plays with our phones and loves to watch music videos on our phones. I am not angry with him because I know that isnt the man I married and an evil spirit seeking to destroy my marriage is responsible for this. I have noticed a serious lack of interest in prayer and family worship from my hubby and I am afraid of the possible dangers this can bring to our home. Please how do you suggest I handle this issue? I am skeptical of confrontation because the only time I confronted him concerning my suspicion of infidelity, it didnt turn out good. If confrontation is the best way, kindly tell me how to go about this because I may have got it wrong the first time. I want deliverance for my husband, marriage and young family. I thought it might be helpful for you to know I am based in Africa, that should help in guiding the suggestions you give me. Thank youMay 27, 2014 at 11:40 amOne: Download Porn and Your Husband . Most of the advice in it will be relevant, regardless of location.Two: Dont blame yourself for his porn problem. Chances are good that he was exposed years ago.Three: Remember, as you confront him, the goal is restoration, not accusation, but he does need to move toward repentence. In fact, in Matthew 18:1520, Jesus actually commands that if in a oneonone loving confrontation, the person doesnt repent, then we are to bring in progressively more people. If not the pastors themselves, dont be afraid to bring in another trusted church elder to lovingly confront him and hold him accountable for his Internet use.SAMJune 3, 2014 at 2:11 pmGeeGet your head out of the sand. You did not push your husband on porn because you were gone for a while. He most likely was doing it long before you were married and you only just found out about it. Men are really good about covering it up because they dont want to have to give it up!! Yes, this IS the man you married!!! You can confront him, but he will just get better at covering his tracks if he is not truly ready to surrender to God! Until HE wants to truly change, YOU cant make him. If men really believed that their wives were DAUGHTERS of GOD they would be on their knees begging for His mercy because of the way they treat their wives and other women.June 14, 2014 at 3:05 pmHi Micah. This article is very important and I deem it totally helpful for each couple. Im still young and student but I do know that pornography destroys families. According to the statistics I did, 90 of men I questioned said that watching porno decreases intimacy, and consequently many couples split up.During our conversations, I realized one important thing: God must be at the core of each couple.I thank God you and Michael made it big! The success of your couple is also a great lesson for your children.So tell me, what advices would you give to the youth, who used to watch porn (I am among them), who are still struggling with it, so that their future wont be ruined by those demonic flicks?Too much thanks!June 18, 2014 at 11:15 amDallen, You are absolutely right. God must be the center or true victory is impossible. Will power will only go so far, and then the stronghold comes back with vengeance. Pornography is actually sexual idolatry. There are only two things that Paul said to flee (or literally run away from) and they are sexual immorality and idolatry. Pornography use encompasses them both! So1) A young man must pray for a heart like Daniel who determined in his heart not to defile himself with the Babylonian culture. That means that he would be willing to say no to those places, movies, music, TV shows, websites, or anything that might lead him into temptation. Much of the problem with Christians is that we arent willing to root out those areas of defilement. We believe the lie that were strong enough to deal with the temptation on our own. We want the victory of Christ, but we want to live like the world. It just doesnt work that way. The world says indulge yourselves, but Christ says deny yourselves.2) Eph. 5:11 says, Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. Be willing to expose the sin and temptation to a godly man whose walk you desire to emulate. A young man should pray and look for a spiritually mature man who can hold him accountable and disciple him into a deeper walk with the Lord. When the greater addiction is Jesus, no longer does anything else even compare in satisfaction. My husband became so satisfied with Christ that the fruitless deeds of darkness just didnt seem so appealing anymore. Not to say that hes beyond temptation, on the contrary, hes capable of any temptation (as am I), which is precisely what keeps him (and myself) walking closely with the Lord.3) Get into the habit of spending time in prayer and studying the Word at the beginning of every day. If youve never read the Bible all the way through, I would recommend the One Year Bible and just start trekking through it. Dont wait until January. Just get one, and get going.4) Install filteringaccountability software such as Covenant Eyes on all your internet capable devices. Gone are the days of passive Christianity. If a young man wishes to keep his ways pure he must be proactive in foreseeing the danger ahead and taking precautions Prov. 27:12.5) Get busy with kingdom work. David fell into sexual sin because he was at home lazing around when he shouldve been with his men in battle. There is a great war going on for the hearts and souls of men, women, and children. Find an area where you love to serve and get busy giving your life away.Thank you, Dallen, for your comments and desire to walk righteously in an unrighteous world. Praying for victory over every temptation, and that the Lord would use you as an example of holiness and purity among your generation. Blessings!Michael HornerJune 18, 2014 at 3:49 pmDallen, I totally agree with my wife, Micah.I want to encourage you as she did in 2, pray to the Lord and beg Him to bring a Paul in your life. . .and older man in the faith full of grace and truth, willing and able to pour his life into yours, sharpening you and challenging you to live up to Gods call on your life.In addition to what Micah said, in Romans 7:18 Paul says For I know that NOTHING good lives in me, that is, in my flesh. For the desire to do what is good is with me, but there is NO ABILITY to do it. Living in freedom from pornography and lust is SUPERNATURAL! You need to rely upon the Holy Spirit and not yourself. You, my brother, have no power. This battle is impossible to win in your own strength and flesh, but it is HIMpossible!Lastly, I want to recommend a valuable person and resource I found VERY HELPFUL for me. His name is David Jones with Restoration Path. Here is a link to his website, http:restorationpath.org . David Jones is one of my heroes. He is a man full of grace and truth and I believe he would be very helpful to you as well. He would offer some professional advice in addition to the local man recommended above. One of the great services David offers is Skype counseling.God is for you brother! Rely on him!July 18, 2014 at 12:17 pmWe have been dealing with this all our marriage, more than 30 years of forgiving and thinking he was done with it. Years of hoping for better only to realize it was a farce. I am realizing that I have not been seeing repentance, only shame and temporary regret. He is full of anger. I have told him for years that he must deal with this, even for the destruction it will pass on to our children. Sure enough, it is on the way to that. He is not taking responsibility for what it has done to our marriage and family and wants me to deal with my sin because this time I have said no more! Yesterday my son, in front of his father said I was responsible for why dad did porn and if I had been different His dad agreed. The counselors we have been seeing dont really get it. Does being married to a porn addict mean that you are inherently sick too. I have spent these years clinging to and serving the Lord. I dont understand how my kids can blame me. I tried to keep them from having to deal with it but my sons are computer savvy so they know and he told one of my daughters. We use covenant eyes and open DNS. I would talk to my pastor but my husband is my pastor. He is reading Pure Minds and has started attending a mens group. Are they going to tell him that he needs to quit blaming me??? I am very angry and I am not going to put up with it anymore.July 18, 2014 at 12:44 pmFor your sake and his, I hope reality slaps him across the face. His addiction to porn is not your fault, and he needs to get that.Often people, and Christians especially, have this confusion. Coming from the assumption that we all sin (which is true), we gravitate towards models of counseling and advice that say the wife is a coaddict. The coaddict model essentially says, There is something profoundly broken in you as a woman, and when you met your husband, his brokenness and your brokenness were magnetically drawn to each other. You were like two heatseeking missiles, bound to find each other. Your brokenness exasperates his brokenness, and vice versa.Now, I do believe that many women do enter into marriage with sexual and relational baggage of their own, but whats incorrect about this coaddict model is it presumes too much about who is responsible for which persons sin. Let me draw a worstcase scenario. Lets say a woman was particularly odious to her husbandsharp, critical, meanspirited, accusatory, vengeful, withholding forgiveness, withholding sex, insecureyou get the picture. Then lets say her husband looks at porn. Whos guilty of looking at porn? The husband. Did his marriage create stress in his life? Yes. But who went to porn as the release valve for that stress? The husband.If you are guilty of sinning against your spouseand were all guilt of itown your own sin, not his.Im so sorry this has been in your life for over three decades.I wrote a post about this, and perhaps your husband would enjoy it. Since it went out in our Pure Minds Online newsletter, he might have already seen it. Its called, Husbands Who Watch Porn: 12 Ways to Reassure Your Wife .Micah HornerAugust 20, 2014 at 11:30 amOnly4Him, I cannot adequately express to you how grieved I am to read your story of the potential destruction of your marriage, family, children, and church body. I cant imagine why the Lord has allowed him to continue in a position of church leadership while living in such blatant sin for so long! However, I do know that the Lord will not strive with him forever. Actually, I fear what it may take to get his attention. I tried to protect my husband and his reputation for years by dealing with it alone. Eventually the Lord abruptly got me out of the way of shielding him from consequences, and his sin was very publically exposed. I hated every moment of that mortifying time, yet God used it to bring brokenness into his life (and even mine). God may be preparing you for such a time. He may be giving you His heart on the matter and preparing you to set some firm boundaries with him. I recently wrote about dealing with an unrepentant spouse that may be of help you.His addiction is NOT your fault! There may be areas in your life that you need to work on (we all have them), but his sin is HIS sin. Would I have been justified to commit adultery in response to my husbands extensive adultery just to punish him and make him feel what I felt? Of course not! Yet thats the type justification your husband is attempting. My response, your response, and his response to dealing with our spouses sin should be to turn to the Lord for the answers and let the Lord deal with him, not take the role of vengeance into our own hands by sinning ourselves. Vengeance is the Lords. Its our job just to follow and obey Him whatever that looks like. Your husband has no excuse for his behavior! He knows the truth and has turned a blind eye to it. You need to find a counselor who doesnt perpetuate his selfjustification and encourages him to take ownership for his own sin. You may want to check a few websites for some Christian counselors in your area.1) The AACC (American Association of Christian Counselors) has a very useful tool on their website that could help you locate some counselors in your area.2) Also the Focus on the Family website has a database of counselors they recommend as well.3) Restoration Path is also an incredible ministry that helped my husband. The Founder, David Jones is so very wise and full of truth. They have distance counseling that they do for both husbands and wives by way of Skype.Also, do yall have some other pastor friendscouples whom you could enlist to help you confront and hold him accountable? At this point, he s deceived in thinking hes king. Hes king of the church, king of your home, and king of all his sexual fantasies. Scripture tells you to take it to the church once youve confronted him. In your case the church includes the wider church body as a whole, not just your own church.As for your children, I want you to know that Im praying that the Lord of Hosts will surround your home and protect your children on every side from the plague of pornography, and grant them the discernment to understand the truth and see it from His perspective without you having to defend yourself. As I prayed for you this morning the Lord led me to Is. 44: 15 which I prayed for you and your children.Thus says the Lord who made you and formed you from the womb, who will help you, Do not fear, O Jacob My servant And you Jeshurun whom I have chosen. For I will pour out water on the thirsty land And streams on the dry ground I will pour out My Spirit on your offspring And My blessing on your descendants And they will spring up among the grass like poplars by streams of water. This one will say, I am the Lords And that one will call on the name of Jacob And another will write on his hand, Belonging to the Lord, And will name Israels name with honor.I will be continuing my prayers for you and your family, Only4Him!Love and hugs, MicahAugust 20, 2014 at 1:17 pmOnly4Him My wife, Micah shared with me your comment. My heart is wrenched. I hurt for you, for your children, for the body of Christ, and for your husband. I not only hurt for all involved and affected, I am also angry at sin, not at your husband and the decisions he is making to blatantly sin, but I am angry at the enemy and his cunning, sly ways in helping your husband (as well as countless others) justify their actions to worship false gods! Pornography is an idol. . .a false god! Your husband according to Romans 1:22 is claiming to be wise, but becoming a fool for he is exchanging the glory of the immortal God for images resembling mortal man. According to Romans 1:25, He has exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and he is worshipping and serving something created instead of the Creator.Galatians 6:78 Do not be deceived, God is not mocked for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap. 8 For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life. God is just, He will not allow your husband to go on in sin without true repentance! Pornography blinds you to reality! Pornography is all wrapped up in fantasy and is not real! 1 Corinthians 6:911 Dont you know that the unrighteous will not inherit Gods kingdom? Do not be deceived: No sexually immoral people, idolaters, adulterers, or anyone practicing homosexuality, 10 no thieves, greedy people, drunkards, verbally abusive people, or swindlers will inherit Gods kingdom. I can speak this truth because I used to be this man, deceived into thinking my sin only affected me, deceived into justifying my sin to look at pornography because my wife, Micah wasnt meeting my selfish expectations. This verse, 1 Corinthians 6:11 describes me, And some of you used to be like this. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God. Notice above in Gal 6:7 and 1 Cor 6:9, Gods word says DO NOT BE DECEIVED! Satan is good at deceiving us into justifying sin. Right now he is like the blind leading the blind. The body of Christ is looking to him to open the word of God and say, Thus sayeth the Lord. He cannot with authority and power preach the word of God while living in unrepentant sin, justifying his actions, and continuing in an immoral lifestyle.May the Lord soften his hard heart, open his blind eyes and deaf ears and break him. Hebrews 12:313 talks about Fatherly discipline. My fear for your husband is he may not truly be a son. He is like the blind leading the blind. In Hebrews 12:8, it says But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards, and not sons. Thats pretty stout language, but its so true! Is the Lord disciplining him for his sin? If not then he needs to be very worried! He may be a bastard and not a son! My plea for your husband is to repent! His repentance should look different than others though, for he has willfully led a congregation while living in sin. He should not only seek Gods forgiveness, your forgiveness, and your childrens forgiveness, but he should ask the congregation to forgive him.My prayer for your husband is this that if he is a son, the Lord would discipline him because he is a son, BUT if he is not a son that the Lord would discipline him and make him a son. Job 36:15 says But by means of their suffering, he rescues those who suffer. For he gets their attention through adversity. Thats my prayer for youre your husband as well as others living in unrepentant sin. Suffering because of sin is gracious. You see, I was deceived into thinking that I was a son and that I could sin at any time I wanted because I have grace. Man was I wrong! I was deceived! I wasnt a son when the Lord disciplined me. Neither was Paul on the road to Damascus when he was blinded, but the Lord disciplined him and mad him a son through his suffering. The Lord did the same to me. I lived a sexually immoral lifestyle behind closed doors, but I began to become more bold and didnt care any longer about my sin being exposed or who I was affecting. The Lord got my attention. He broke me by taking everything away from me that I cared about. . .my wife, my children, my business, my reputation. Though I wasnt a son when the Lord disciplined me, he disciplined me and made me a son! By Gods grace I repented. It was Gods goodness that led me to repentance, Romans 2:4. Once I repented, He restored all that I had lost and all the locusts had eaten.I am so sorry you are suffering because of your husbands sin. I am praying Psalm 34 over you and for your family. I want to encourage you more than ever before to seek the Lord, allow Him to be your husband during this time, and lastly surrender your husband to the Lord. I pray that the goodness of God would lead him to repentance, Rom 2:4. Bless you my sister.only4him

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15 Reasons Why Everyone Should Masturbatephoto via flickrSelflove wont cure swine flu, but thats pretty much the only shortcoming we can think of:Getting a grip on yourself helps teach you the pattern of your own sexual response: What you like, what you dont like, and what you hate more than anything else in the whole wide world.Friggin your riggin helps you gain control over when and how soon you climax : Once you can recognize the point right before the point of no return, you can put on the brakes and avoid premature crashes.Polishing your china helps you sleep right before a nap, or as part of your bedtime ritual.Playing with yourself is a great procrastination devicestudy breakboredom reliever. Way better than smoking or television .DIY sex puts a smile on your face by releasing endorphins. So selfadminister a mercy fuck after (or better yet, during) a bad day at work.Jacking off can help kickstart a tired and listless sex drive .Southern comfort puts you first for a change (assuming youre not usually a selfish bastard). Do something nice for yourself: Walk your hand home.Beating off evens the playing field when you want it more than your partner does. With the wave of a hand, presto: No more frustration!Doing the handstroke is a selffulfilling prophecy the more you do it (and the earlier you start doing it), the more likely you are to do it into your old age. That image might gross you out now, but wait till youre seventy.Doing the hand jive is cheap and youre easy, unlike most of your dates.Not jerking off at all, according to sexologists, is more likely to lead to psychological problems than jerking off incessantly. This is an aboutface from the widespread Victorian belief that shaking the bacon would drive you nuts. So stop the insanity!Handtogland combat gives you fresh breath. As long as you brush your teeth when youre done.Testing the plumbing before a date helps keep your head in the game.Widespread wanking creates a more sensual world, adds to the supply of international karma, and thus brings us closer to world peace.Masturbation is the shortest distance between you and an orgasm. Need we say more?And one extra one, just for the ladies because, lets face it, theyre the ones who need the most encouragement to masturbate more often:16. Orgasms can help relieve menstrual cramps and PMS, and fight yeast infections by increasing blood flow to the pelvic area. That alone is a pretty good reason to learn how to flick the bean, and flick it well.